I spoke in February of a workshop that I had attended in the US that had been open and frank about our ‘new normal’ and coming to terms with new body shape and surgery etc.  The majority of the points made had crossed my mind and worried me, in some why or another.  Some I’m yet to tackle but knowing that my concerns are not unique.  If you have the time, do listen to the whole workshop, some of it may shock you but all of it is useful when you’re facing these concerns.  It may also be useful for your partners or loved ones to listen to too so that they may understand what you’re unable to say.  Thank you Lillie Shockney.