Vintage Afternoon Tea – Fundraiser for Penny Brohn Cancer Care

Younger_China55-e1329345377325It was a pleasure and a joy to attend a vintage afternoon tea fundraiser this afternoon.  I have attended and benefited from the Penny Brohn Cancer Care Centre in Bristol AND believes in the importance of ‘Living Beyond (a) Diagnosis’ so it’s great to be able to support them.

A super splendid location, The Secret Garden on the top floor of the private members’ club, Shoreditch House.  When we arrived we were to walk around the edge of the bustling open air swimming pool… where ‘beautiful people’ swim!  Through a small doorway and we found ourselves in this delightful area arranged with tables laden with vintage crockery and tableware.  Pastel shades of bunting and flowers created an amazing setting.  We were also blessed with some glorious October sunshine!

Penny Brohn Cancer Care Vintage Tea 2013As we sipped our bubbles from champagne coupes (nice vintage touch!) we listened to the pop of balloons around us.  Each colour of balloon was a different price (£10, £25 or £40) and contained a little strip of paper detailing the prize won.  I am, as a consequence, looking forward to attending an Insight event at the Royal Opera House; drinking some Fair Exchange Merlot Malbec; and bathing in Wild Olive bathtime treats… but not (necessarily) all at the same time!

After a short time of networking and meeting new and familiar faces, we took our seats for tea.

Jessica Brohn (Penny’s daughter) welcomed us to the event, told us a little about her mother and Pat Pilkington, the Centre and why we were all here.  During the course of our tea, we heard from a lady who had also attended the Centre.  She who was able to share her journey with cancer and how she benefited from her courses at the Centre.

After tea, we had an auction with some incredible prizes that had been donated by Soho House, Cecily, Maire Weaver, Suranne Jones, Toby Whitehouse, and more.

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Jessica then spoke again to update everyone on the national roll out of the Living Well project.  It’s been coming on leaps and bounds since it’s launch (see previous post) and I’m very excited that so many more people are able to participate in the magic of the Living Well courses.  I will be tweeting via @BeyondDiagnosis when new dates and locations are proposed.

A lovely afternoon and I believe, in excess of £5,000 raised for the Penny Brohn Cancer Centre as well sharing the awareness of the Centre and it’s valuable work for anyone affected by cancer.

Macmillan Cancer Voices Conference 2013

images-8As a Cancer Voice and patient advocate I attended the Macmillan Cancer Voices Conference.  This is held each year in a hotel at Gatwick and runs for 2 days with plenaries, workshops and networking.  The attendees are a mix of people newly affected by cancer (diagnosed or carer) together with some old stalwarts who are, like me, advocating for themselves and others.  Many of us ‘old guard’ sit on various other tumour working groups, networks, research, NHS or hospital boards, Healthwatch/LINk, charity or patient groups.  My aims in attending this conference is to be able to share my experience (and that of others I’m familiar with), contribute to discussions at workshops and also come away with more knowledge about new and ongoing projects.  I also like to take the opportunity to share with Macmillan projects that are underway or consideration by other organisations and that perhaps they could work collaboratively or in conjunction with these others rather than reinventing the wheel.

IMG_4092The agenda is, as always, busy.  Attending these conferences isn’t for the faint-hearted and for some can be difficult.

I hope you find my notes from the Conference useful (my additional comments are in italic):

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Welcome from Julia Palca, Macmillan Trustee (Chairman of Board).  Julia explained that she joined CancerLink in 2008 after her own diagnosis.  CancerLink was taken over by Macmillan and is now known as Cancer Voices.

Why are we here today:

  • “You are at the heart of everything we do”
  • Cancer Voices tell us what people affected by cancer need and how they need it.
  • Your Voices are influencing changes in cancer.
  • Challenging times for the health service. We continue to fund-raise, deliver services and influence.
  • 2012 was the most successful for fundraising. £115m raised. £112 spent on people affected by cancer. 8,000 more people reached than the year before.
  • Big part of reach is our Macmillan professionals. 3,000 funded last year.
  • Influence and force for change work. e.g. free social care at end of life. Welsh care delivery plan. Northern Ireland cancer commissioning plan.

Specific examples of user involvement:
Early diagnosis. A GP will only see 8 or 9 new cancer patients a year (on average). We need to raise awareness for GPs and have developed ClinRisk Tool (QCancer Overview).  It has now been piloted in 500+ GP surgeries. Over 800 GPs attended training for early diagnosis.

Improve patient experience. We’ve been working toward: High quality communication patients and staff; Patients involved in decisions; and Coordinated care between settings.

IMG_4094IMG_4095NHS  National Cancer Experience Survey. Macmillan is working with partner organisations to improve on results. Cancer Voices and Healthwatch to co-create Macmillan’s guide to using the survey.  Copies can be obtained from BeMacmillan.

Campaigning for carers. 1.1m cancer carers in the UK. 50% don’t identify as carers or realise there is support available to them.

This month Macmillan are launching a new campaign to reach carers and also lobby care bill to strengthen and support carers.

Redesigning cancer care systems. Macmillan are encouraging user involvement working group as part of the programme of changes in the NHS care system.

Exciting programme ahead and a great deal of opportunities for patient/carers to get involved and improve care.

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Neil Stevens VP of Skype – keynote session.

Neil described his own experience.  At the time of his diagnosis, he thought nothing of jumping on a plane for a day of meetings in Sydney and did this regularly!  He was focused, impatient, driven and busy.  Life was good.  At the young age of 43 he noticed a lump on his hip.  He was overseas on a business trip.  A local Dr told him not to worry.  He carried on with his business trip.  Back to the UK he sought more medical advice and scans.  Initially he was told it was nothing to worry about.  He was fortunate to have private cover and once again pushed for more tests.

Eventually he had a diagnosis – a rare form of sarcoma – extraskeletal osteosarcoma.  So he knew the name but little else.

The tumour was removed by surgery and he was back at work in 3 weeks.  His life returned to ‘normal’ as if it never happened.

At a routine scan 6 weeks later life however he was told that the sarcoma was back and now in his pelvis and lungs.  They stated that there were over 100 tumours in his lungs and told he probably had 18 months.

So he put on his business head.  After all he was driven, focused and able.  He became the Cancer Elimination Officer (CEO) of his cancer.  Neil said that he had to address the cancer in the same way he addresses any business problem.  He first gets all the facts and data (no small task when there is so little), he would then build a strategy to eliminate it.  He was sure he would be able to do so.

He’s fortunate that he had money and contacts to track down and seek advice from the world’s expert at Sloane Kettering in the USA.  When he met with them, the consultant told him ‘You can beat this’.  Neil said that hearing that meant he knew it was true.  Once again an incredibly positive attitude.

He started chemotherapy immediately.  He knew that there was no sign of activity after round 1.  He kept telling everyone he could that he would beat it.  He kept a positive mind.

The final round scans couldn’t find anything!

What he learnt was the power of his own mind. He’s very factual and needed information. BUT he knew he could take control and manage it. Neil went for counselling, took up pilates, changed diet, aware of power of his own body and mindful meditation.

The hardest part was telling the children. Macmillan helped.
“Ask all the questions and let the children talk.”

He knew deep down he could do this.  He knew that by addressing it as he would a business deal, he’d be able to command what he knew he needed and be in control.

He wrote a document justifying why Cyberknife should be used not radiotherapy.. he got it.
He found a trial in the US. He did a PowerPoint presentation of why he should get on the trial. He got it.

He’s now been back at work full time for a year.  He’s moved to a new role which is less stressful.  He believes fitness and Pilates played a part in his health.  He meditates whenever he feels worried or panics.  He’s learnt to keep perspective.

He did have a small relapse in June with tumours in his lungs however is now completely clear following surgery.

As with everything in his life, he wondered how he can use his experience to create change. “I was given cancer for a reason. I can do something with this.” He met with Ciaran Devane (Chief Executive at Macmillan)

Skype’s amazing and free and global. He works for Skype.  What if we built a tool that allowed people with cancer connect?

Now the Skype Buddy system has been built and is being piloted. The principal is to enable people affected by cancer to be able to talk to specialists (financial counselling, medical etc) or patient to patient or carer to carer.  (I’m not sure if there will be group discussions but hope there will be as it would be a great opportunity to have group chats on specific subjects with perhaps nurses or clinicians on the call too).

Digital advisory board for Macmillan that he’s putting together has representatives from the likes of Facebook, Expedia, Amazon etc.

What is Skype Buddy system?  Click here for explanation.

IMG_4093The system is being piloted currently and looking for people to get involved, use the system, provide feedback and evaluate.

Sign up for the Skype Buddy pilot here

At present the system appears to have a small number of cancers and a limited sign up criteria.  I wonder if this will be increased in order to match Buddies on better criteria.  I am an Imerman Angel whereby we mentor others with the same cancer diagnosis by phone, Skype, email, letter etc, as required.  I’m a little disappointed that when I spoke with a number of charities, NCAT and NHS representatives about the Imerman Angels some years ago it was dismissed as a crazy idea to ask people to use technology to speak to someone similar!  Hey ho, I guess time and mindsets have moved on.  Imerman Angels match us on a huge number of criteria including age, marital status, children and cancer.  Although it may seem excessive, I know that some of that criteria would have been critical in my journey.

I have offered my experience to this project as I have worked with IT online projects for many years and also the Imerman Angels system (which I continue to mentor for).

We need more types of cancer in Skype Buddy project so that there is perfect matches.  For example (and perhaps selfishly for me) ‘soft tissue sarcoma’ is not defined enough.  Sarcoma cancer can occur anywhere in the human body and issues that may affect someone with Phyllodes in the breast will no doubt be different to someone with an Leiomyosarcoma.

Skype Buddy is about 1:1 relationship.  I do hope this will open up to group chats on specific topics.

We also need to ensure the supporting Buddies are provided with good (ongoing) training.  They should also be provided with the ability to reach out for support for themselves.

We need to use technology better and use it as a key element of the broader strategy.

Neil closed by saying that his views of life have changed as he enters the 2nd half of his life:

Seize the day… Enjoy the day, your life, that moment, value it. Be present with people. Engaged with people. He shared with us a very powerful statement from James Dean: “Dream as if you will live forever and live as if you will die today.

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We then split out into different conference rooms for Welcome groups.  The purpose was to meet other Cancer Voices and Macmillan team members.  After introducing ourselves and finding out what each of us had done in the past 12 months for Macmillan we discussed what do we want from the conference?  The main points from our group were:

  • Not reinventing the wheel.
  • Feedback on the projects we’re involved in.
  • Updates from the previous conference.
  • Sharing information, data and reports with others.
  • Working collaboratively to provide information.

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Workshop – Improving Cancer Patient experience in the New NHS

Following an exercise to introduce ourselves to other Voices at our table and then a  ‘ice-breaker’/competition, the workshop began.

3. Mid Staffs and the Francis Report.  The final report and executive summary can be viewed here.
4. Macmillans’ work to improve cancer experience
5. Group Exercise – using tools to improve patient experience

Mid Staffs
Failings of Care at Mid Staffs – Robert Francis QC Feb 2013 stated “This is a story of appalling and unnecessary suffering of hundreds of people”. The priority of his report, he said, was not to find a scapegoat, but find ways of putting patients and the quality of care first.

  • Not just cancer.. of course the mortality of all illnesses was too high at Mid Staffs.
  • Waiting times for cancer patients to see specialists were far too long which meant that many people died where as they should have been saved.
  • Chronic understaffing on cancer wards. Lack of commitment to improving outcomes for cancer patients.
  • Obsession for reaching targets but not standard of care for living longer and better quality of life.
  • No rapid referral system to oncologists which should have been in place.
  • Lack of support for the clinician from the MDT surgeons.

Failings on cancer care at Mid Staffs

  • Not listening sufficiently to patients and staff
  • Failing to tackle a negative culture involving a tolerance of poor standards and disengagement.
  • Increased focus on reaching national access targets, achieving financial balance and seeking foundation trust status.

How do we know if patient experience is good/bad?
There’s the NHS cancer patient experience survey, peer reviews and several different areas.

  • Information and Support
  • Emotional Support
  • Holistic plan
  • Dignity and respect

Francis Inquiry Report recommendations

  • Transparency
  • Fundamental standards
  • Accountable
  • Compliance

Macmillan have devised

Value Based Standard is a set of behaviours that is practical developed by patients and carers.

There are eight behaviours in the Macmillan Values Based Standard:
1. Naming – I am the expert on me.
2. Private communication – My business is my business
3. Communicating with more sensitivity – I’m more than my condition
4. Clinical treatment and decision making – I’d like to understand what will happen to me.
5. Acknowledge me if I’m in urgent need of support – I’d like not to be ignored.
6. Control over my personal space and environment – I’d like to feel comfortable.
7. Managing my own – I don’t want to feel alone on this.
8. Getting care right – my concerns can be acted upon.

Sadly a great deal of these ‘standard’ points should be what we do every day as humans. Why do we need standards to ask a medical member of staff to remember to ask how someone wants to be addressed? Anna, Ms Wallace, Miss Wallace etc.
Common courtesy!!

What is the NHS Cancer Patient Experience Survey (CPES)
The survey was completed by over 70,000 people and covers care before, during and after hospital.  Does it survey the family of deceased cancer patients about their experience?

IMG_4085We spent a short amount of time looking at extracts of the Survey and attempting to work out where we might feel improvement should be focused.  The Survey results are lengthy and difficult to interpret.  There are many tips on doing so, such as look at the figures for last year and this year to see if there has been an improvement.  How does that Trust compare to other Trusts?  If many Trusts performed badly, could you Trust improve sufficiently to be hailed as the ‘gold standard’?

In the final minutes of the workshop we discussed what we might do as patient/carers/advocates to ‘encourage’ our local Trusts to improve, with measurable improvement and to be held account.

I had been booked into a workshop by Healthtalkonline.  Disappointed that they weren’t in attendance at the conference as I wanted to find out first hand more about their work, strategy and future plans.  Perhaps next year?

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The first day of Conference ended with a networking opportunity via drinks and then dinner.  It is always a joy to meet up with friends at this Conference, many of whom I don’t see from year to year (except on social media).  This year the entertainment was provided by a singer who crooned his way through a whole host of fabulous tunes.  On our table we seemed to know all the words and were (I think) the first ones up for a little dance!  Great fun and perfect entertainment for this event as it appealed to pretty much every age group (the joy of Robbie Williams doing covers!).

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The second day began with the second workshop of the conference.

Workshop – Commissioning the bigger picture

What is commissioning?

  • Purchase/buying services.

The theory is that we are all commissioners.

  • I’m buying for my needs.  I look for value for money, choice, what I need, who am I buying for, can we afford it and quality.

Health service commissioning is similar. It happens all the time. Some stuff will be bought every week. some things might be purchased for special occasion.

The commissioning cycle.
Assessing needs -> Needs assessment -> Planning -> Specifying -> contracting -> evaluation.

Clinical Commissioning Groups (CCG) now do the ‘buying’ of services in the new NHS.

  • CCGs are a group of GPs that come together to form a group to commission services.
  • No boundaries are set as to how many GPs are required or the maximum number either.
  • There are now over 200 CCGs.
  • £100bn is the NHS budget and £65bn of which goes to the CCG.

Do GPs know what to buy?  How are these different CCGs going to ensure that nothing slips between the geographical groups of CCGs?

Kings Fund video – An alternative guide to the new NHS in England.

Sadly we didn’t get to see it as the broadband was too slow.. perhaps it should have been downloaded prior to the conference to play locally?

We then worked (as best we could) through picture handout (final slide of video below – click to enlarge).

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All organisations involved have a duty.  Briefly, who is involved?

  • Public Health England – more proactive, awareness and prevention (sit within the council – local government.
  • Social care – care of the elderly, supporting people with disabilities, someone post cancer treatment needing assistance at home.
  • Health & Wellbeing boards – brings together main leaders in particular area.
  • Healthwatch – responsible for supporting public voice in monitoring health and social care locally.
  • Cancer Commissioning.  Commissioning Support Units support the CCGs and, in the most part, are made up of the original ‘commissioners’ in the old NHS structure.

HOWEVER one of the significant rules for CCGs is that they have to engage with members of the public.

Most of these are linked to the clinical senates within the new strategic clinical networks

How can you influence what is happening locally?

  • Clinical Commissioning Groups,
  • Patient Participation Groups – ask for information at your local GP surgery.
  • Hospital boards – find out which boards have patient representation.
  • Health and wellbeing boards making decisions about the needs of the local area.
  • Healthwatch/LINk

Or at a regional level.  Make enquiries.  Ask where you can be involved.

If interested in cancer commissioning get involved with strategic clinical network.

Not sure where to start?  How do you get involved?

Start with Macmillan involvement coordinators who can advise on where to go.

A useful 7 point ‘reminder’ for consideration and preparation before going into any patient involvement group or meeting:

  1. Define your preferred outcome and retreat outcome
  2. Consider the second position – what does the other person think?
  3. Be clear with benefits for both sides
  4. Present evidence and proof to reassured
  5. Think about your delivery
  6. Anticipate barriers or blockages
  7. Explore the barrier, empathise, re-present.

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My final workshop of the conference was on a subject I’m passionate about.  I hoped to find out more about initiatives that Macmillan are involved in to improve care for people living beyond diagnosis.

Workshop: Improving Care for people living with and beyond cancer
Sandra Rowlands and Gloria Payne

National Cancer Survivorship Initiative (NCSI):
Survivorship being from the first thought of cancer until the last breath… not just post treatment or for a set period of time.

Recovery Package:
They showed a slide to show the numbers of people living with cancer and how they are projected to boom:

  • In 2010 there were 220,000 living with and beyond cancer.
  • In 2030 it is projected that there will 370,000 (1 yr survival); 570,000 to 990,0000 (1-5 yrs) and 1,290,000 – 2,680,000 (more than 5 years).

Often it is spoken about that the number of people living with cancer is set to double by 2030.

We are already struggling to accommodate the increased numbers of cancer patients.  If the numbers are correct we need to be collaboratively working for survivorship  – charities, NHS, local health, patient groups etc.

Another projected figure that truly is worrying is that by 2020 almost 50% of Britons will get cancer but 38% will not die FROM cancer.

38.7% of cancer survivors are of working age ie 18-64 = 38.7%  If this percentage of working people living with a cancer diagnosis continues at almost 50% of the population then it will have a huge impact because of needs and use.

Median survival times are improving. 1971-72 = 1 year whereas 2007 5.8 years.

NCSI 2010 Vision

There are five key shifts:

  • Cultural – focus on recovery, health and wellbeing.
  • Holistic assessment 9 individual and personalised care planning.
  • Self management – not clinical follow up.
  • Tailored follow up support.
  • Patient Reported Outcomes Measures (PROMS) not clinical activity.

My cancer treatment – gives national cancer experience survey results, and peer reviews, what hospitals are centre of excellence, mortality rates and survival rates etc.

New document prepared by the NCSI “Living With and Beyond Cancer: Taking action to improve outcomes 2013.

Also detailed is a Recovery package to support the new NHS commissioning and includes:

  • Supporting self management.
  • Physical activity and healthy lifestyle.
  • Information financial and work support.
  • Managing consequences of treatment.
  • Assessment and care planning.
  • Treatment summary and cancer care review.
  • Health and wellbeing event.

Macmillan Identifying your concerns checklist (white form) which is completed by the patient/carer and then returned to the specialist (holistic needs assessment).

This is then discussed and worked through with the Care plan which then has a plan of action etc.

There is an excellent piece on the NCSI website which explains each part and also has downloadable forms to adopt for good practice.

These are also available on the BeMacmillan website.

A useful tip for the Treatment Summary use was for the purpose of travel insurance.  As any cancer patient knows travel insurance can often be difficult and expensive to find.  Macmillan advised that the Treatment Summary form could be used as the basis of medical information for this purpose.  My own travel insurance is through InsuranceWith who specialise in travel insurance for people with long term conditions.

We spoke about the importance of Health and wellbeing events being held locally.  It was suggested that through the patient participation groups this could be set up and achieved.  Also to contact your Macmillan Involvement Coordinator to assist and perhaps provide some funding.

In order to sustain recovery, perhaps via self care with support and open access to the medical teams.  Shared care within the hospital environment and local, social and self care.  However complex cases must be managed through an MDT.

Care co-ordination and remote surveillance.  This needs collaborative working between the clinical setting and local/social care together with third sector organisations.

Walking for health is a scheme whereby walks are organised for free locally.  However could more be done.  If you have high blood pressure or a heart complaint you are entitled to some physical exercise grant/access however as a cancer patient there is no physical exercise grant/access available yet. This should be highlighted.. could you raise this with your MP?

Work and cancer – Often this is overlooked during treatment but essential for so many to be able to return to work in some capacity.  Macmillan advise people NOT to resign but to find a working solution with your employer.

Taking action – Innovation to implementation: Stratified pathways of care for people living with or beyond cancer- A “how to guide” was published by NHS improvement in 2013, and provides local teams with a very practical ‘how to’ guide based on the experience of the test sites.

What does success look like?

  • Improved outcomes for people living with and beyond cancer.

Can you help ensure that this happens?

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The final plenary session, “A journey with a view from 3 sides of the fence”, and close for the Conference was given by Johnny Browne who was a GP, was a carer for his wife with cancer and is a Macmillan GP advisor for Northern Ireland.

Macmillan GPs special interest in cancer and their role is to promote best cancer care in their area/locality.  (Macmillan fund GP training and I would love to know which GPs had received the training so that if I was to move locality I could ensure my GP was familiar with cancer treatments.  Is the list of Macmillan GPs available to the public?  I can’t find it!)

In an attempt to point out areas where I think cancer care can be improved and looking from 3 very different perspectives:

  1. Do not forget as a GP the importance of self esteem and body image in cancer patients.
    1. Look Good.… Feel Better programme
  2. Diagnosing cancer early:
    1. Awareness
    2. Difficult journey, sometimes truly difficult, often symptoms mask as something else. Patients should be aware of symptoms and not be afraid or embarrassed to say anything. “If you were meant to be shot, you’ll not drown”
    3. Diagnosing Earlier App?
    4. Take pity on the poor GP who is like a penguin. Don’t refer too many patients. Make sure all your referrals meet the referral guidelines?
    5. All cancer studies ask “how many times you attended the GP before diagnosis”
    6. Most of the time the GP didn’t miss anything as often symptoms can be something else too… but we’re improving in seeing patterns.
  3. Improve communication
    1. As a carer I realised how important it was. Written communication and results. Between patients, medics, staff, GP etc etc
    2. How many people do you get in contact with during your cancer journey?
    3. Sensitivity, know your patient, what they want, how they should be addressed etc.
    4. Difficult for me as a GP to navigate the cancer journey. It can be extremely difficult for someone who is new to the NHS and ‘cancerland’.
    5. Treatment summary – Macmillan have developed this and it explains what happened to the patient. 3 copies – patient, hospital and GP. You can take this with you in the case of emergency, insurance or advice.
    6. Twitter showing how the world really looks from his photos posted. (Commander Hadfield)
    7. #hellomynameis campaign on Twitter
  4. Four things I’ve learnt about communication
    1. Health care professionals can do better.
    2. Look patients in the eye
    3. Difficult care pathway – passport to death. Talked to the patient to obtain the information rather than GO through a form. People and organisations have made the form more important than the patient – we need to change that back and hear the story rather than fill the form.
    4. 1 or 2% who give you bad communication can undo all the good of the rest of the team who give great communication.
  5. When you are going through you cancer journey, we don’t or are reluctant to complain.
    1. Perhaps it’s up to us to put the message out there or complain for others (factually, professionally and politely).
  6. Spread the word ‘Living with Cancer’
  7. I knew nothing as a GP nor as a carer but as a Macmillan GP I do… from you.
  8. All cancer patients need follow up and review.
  9. Travel insurance for those affected by cancer.
  10. Remember to live.. we did House building in Zambi, white water rafting and more… remember to Live.
  11. Don’t remove Hope.
    1. Why can’t you be one of the small survival percent.
  12. Spread the word about exercise
    1. Any exercise is good.
  13. Remember no one should face cancer alone.
  14. Keep a diary.
    1. Not of medical things but also happy fun memories and thoughts. It can be a lonely disease even with family and friends.

General Practice 2013.
Its changing. How does someone with a chronic condition have a relationship with the GP?  It’s in change or flux.

GP out of Hours 2013.
Important to a cancer patient to be able to access GPs out of hours. Could they avoid the A&E admissions?
But A&E is often not a great place for a cancer patient to be first hand and stuck on a bed in a hallway. We need to get quicker access.

In his wife, Lynda’s diary was a note:

“I hope you enjoy your new job with Macmillan to help people with cancer and to bring your personal experience to this”.

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General comments for this Conference:

Time is short to discuss fully all the topics and workshops and listen to the plenaries.  Perhaps we should consider:

1/  Sending out by email or post preliminary information for reading prior to the Conference.

2/  All Voices are attending to participate.  I don’t think there’s a need for an ‘ice-breaker’ in each session.  It just wastes time and irritates those who want to get on with the discussion.

3/  Whilst all Voices attending have a personal experience of cancer (diagnosed or as a carer) it should be encouraged to, if required, use snippets of their experience if pertinent to the workshop. 

4/  Should some of the workshops be for newbies and some for ‘old stalwarts’? 

5/  Should there be a workshop on ‘how to complain’ so that many of the ‘negative’ experiences that participants feel they need to share can be addressed in this workshop in a constructive manner?

6/  So often during the conference people bring up negative experiences and complaints with the health system.  Could Macmillan also encourage people to report when things have gone well and encourage best practice by highlighting that someone has excelled at their job!  We all like to be appreciated and there are a great many people doing a fantastic job in the NHS and cancerland – we must learn to say thank you!

Breast Cancer Care Fashion Show 2013

It’s is fair to say that Breast Cancer Care have once again managed to host an incredible Fashion Show in London.  As usual there was laughter and tears.  Once again we are reminded that cancer can have a much bigger effect on life than treatment itself.  The fashion show models were, as always, ladies and gentlemen who had themselves been diagnosed with breast cancer and representing the many 1,000s of others.  Some a little nervous, others relishing the opportunity and sashaying with the best of them!  They strutted their stuff down the catwalk looking absolutely incredible.

I was invited to attend this afternoon as a guest of Breast Cancer Care as Issy’s +1.  Kelly was also able to join us so the ‘Three tits on tour‘ were back in town!  Both Kelly and Issy were models last year, as were a couple of the other ladies at our table.

IMG_4081I love the whole afternoon.  We had a very warm welcome with a glass of bubbly and then made our way to the Grand Ballroom.  It looked stunning.  All glitzy and glamorous (as did the guests!).  Opening the show with an act, the Dixie Dinahs.  Followed by a short and emotional welcome from Jane Hinnrichs, Chair of the Board of Trustees to tell us about Breast Cancer Care, their work and also about their new branding.

1045190_10151842512420306_978083735_aPersonally, I’m a huge fan of this new orange and pink.  I think it will stand out from the ‘pink melee’ and, for those of us who feel breast cancer is not pink and fluffy, I believe it to be a stronger message with these bold colours.  Well done Breast Cancer Care.

Our afternoon tea was plentiful with lots of delicious sandwiches, teas and cakes.  Ooh a happy place to be!

Edith Bowman gave a short speech about why she supports Breast Cancer Care before introducing us to the inspirational models for the day.

The models clearly had quite a task to change for the many themes and managed to look incredible in every one.  As always the chaps did a sterling job and my heart always goes out to them as their journey must also have been tough being diagnosed with breast cancer in a world of pink.  We loved the bright fashions for the first set (surprised not to see Mike Myers show us his moves on the runway).  The fifties set was also fabulous – loved the frocks by Candy Anthony.

1We were then treated to ‘Winners’ Enclosure’ and ‘Cocktail Hour’.  Finishing the fashion show with ‘Gold!’.

Breast Cancer Care Fashion Show 2013

After the fashion show had concluded we were introduced to Breast Cancer Care’s new campaign about body confidence.  It’s an issue that affects so many people following surgery of any type.  Living with scars, one or no breasts, mis-shapen or ‘damaged’ bodies can be devastating to many people and have a huge impact on their lives, relationship and outlook.  Learning to accept your ‘new’ body can be, for some, bigger than the diagnosis.  The new campaign aims to show others how some people have dealt with their new body image.  Bring about a discussion and for some, allow them to open up and discuss what they see under their clothes.  Issy was one of the models and you may have seen her image on buses, posters and in magazines.

Do take a minute to look at the video here

IMG_4091images-7The afternoon finished with an auction.  Then the results of the raffle – I won a prize!   A hamper full of chocolate and flowers (to be ordered) from celebrity florist Simon Lycett.  What more does this girl need?

Surprise Surprise – Sharon Fox Cancer Centre

Sharon warned us to keep tonight free.  A short while ago she then told us to be near a TV.  She couldn’t hide it from us for much longer as ITV started telling us about the new series of Surprise Surprise… hell yeah!  Finally Sharon had a surprise played on her!

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??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????Sharon, through the Sharon Fox Cancer Centre, has played many ‘surprises’ on people.  Providing them with things that they dreamed of to do, have or be, during or after cancer treatment.  She’s even arranged an entire wedding in days for a lady with terminal cancer.

I said before in my entry in 2010 that Sharon is inspirational in her setting up Sharon Fox Cancer Centre.  Since then the Centre has grown, offering more services, running more support groups, moved premises (and is shortly to move again) and bought so much to the community of Tamworth.

Sharon herself has undergone further surgery, continues to remain positive about her own health and family but gives an extraordinary amount of time and effort to ensure that Sharon Fox Cancer Centre not only remains open but continues to thrive.

I’m so pleased she was honoured (& surprised) today and that she now has Michelle Mone as a mentor to help the Centre and Sharon move forward.

Oooh and the Dream Boys!

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Healthwatch – Cancer Project Group

It’s been quite a while since this project group met up.  There’s been such a lot of confusion as to what’s going on and whether Healthwatch (or LINk) will even exist in the new structure.

The Central West London group has created a number of smaller specialist groups and the cancer project group has been terrifically active and positive.  There are a number of projects that we can measurably show have improved the cancer services in the area, particularly the regard to the ethnic minority groups now attending screening appointments and seeing Drs when symptoms first appear.

Today’s meeting was called to explain, as it stands at the moment, about the transition from LINk to Healthwatch.  What it means?  How it will impact current projects?

Healthwatch is the new consumer champion for health and social care in England.  It provides a voice for the community to improve care, to complain, to acknowledge good care etc in your local area.  It should also be used as a place to signpost to other health and wellbeing charities and organisations in the area and for those organisations to work with Healthwatch.

We are all aware of national projects looking at hospital care or home care.  Perhaps you could get involved and make a difference locally by using your experience to make your voice heard DIRECT to the local area.  There are a lot of opportunities to get involved.  Attend meetings.  Be part of a project group inspecting hospitals, surgeries, clinics etc.  Feed back on your experiences.  Membership is free and you can choose how much time or experience you might want to dedicate.

There was also a presentation by User Involvement Lead for the new Cancer Commissioning Team to tell us all about the new Cancer Services in London.  There has been a lot of confusion about what is to happen.  How London is to be divided into regions to work within the new structure.  How we can improve cancer services for the many people diagnosed each year in London.

A few facts:

Around 13,600 people die from cancer in London each year.
More than 50% of whom are under 75 years of age. The number of new cancer cases in London is predicted to increase from around 27,000 in 2002 to 28.500 in 2022

Londoner has historically reported a poorer experience of cancer care than compared with other regions of England.  This needs to improve.  Not only for those being diagnosed but those living with and beyond a diagnosis.  We have so many cancer specialist hospitals in London but we need to ensure that they are working together for the benefit of all patients and carers.  We need to ensure that the service provided is of the best possible care but that it is equitable no matter which hospital you attend.  Collaborative working and less ‘competition’ between hospitals and trusts.  I personally feel that we, patient and carer advocates, need to continue to remind the people in charge that the service they offer should be the best and should be patient-centric!

London cancer services have been divided into two areas:

London Cancer Alliance – West and South London
London Cancer – North and East London

Although that sounds a clean division.  In fact it’s more of a crescent and geographically cover a vast area.  There have been huge concerns about the spread of hospitals and trusts and how they are going to communicate.  Just to host a short meeting will take many hours for some participants to attend.

It’s also very important that we, as patient and carer advocates, participate in the new structure.  There are opportunities to sit on committees and boards.  There are also user groups, pathway groups and many other opportunities.  Not all of them are regular commitments.  Not all of them require you to attend meetings.  Your experience as a patient or carer is critical to ensuring improvements can be made.  Often, and at a simple level, the wording in leaflets and information can be improved by patients reviewing it!

Below are a few links:

North West London Commissioning Support Unit – Patient focus.  We’re passionate about helping you improve services for patients and will work with you to deliver the change and benefits you’re striving for.
West London Clinical Commissioning Group
London Cancer Alliance – Improving Cancer Outcomes through partnership
London Cancer – London Cancer is a partnership of NHS, academic, charity and cancer specialists dedicated to providing  expert, compassionate care for every patient, every time.

We also discussed briefly the results of the 2013 National Cancer Patient Experience Survey.  Disappointingly London doesn’t fair too well.  There are even a few points where it appears some of our hospitals are doing OK… until you spot that in relation to other hospitals we all did badly!  Do have a look at it.  Perhaps your input and shared experience could help improve the services.

Macmillan have also commented on the survey here.

 

 

Barnes Food Fair

The sun was shining and there’s a food fair on… well it’s be rude not to attend, right?

Barnes Community Association are hosting, for the third year, a Food Fair on the Village Green.  What a stunning setting it is too.  Just over the bridge from bustling Hammersmith.  Until you visit these little places you forget that even in London, we do have little villages.  Not only do we have them but they are places of beauty and quiet.

The premise behind the Fair was to introduce people to the fabulous amount of quality food providers, restaurants, delis and other food outlets in the area together with raising funds for the local community association.  The marquee was packed with stalls selling all sorts of goodies.  Matt and I managed at least 3 circuits, tasting and purchasing as we went.  We then wandered round the outside stalls (more tasting and purchasing).  Then, we found a couple of chairs and a corner of a table in which we set about eating our, now substantial, picnic.  There’s nothing like comparing different sausage rolls and pork pies!  A little envious though when we spotted a black pudding sausage roll and realised we didn’t have room to eat any more!

There’s plenty of entertainment too.  A stage hosting a selection of singers, choirs, orchestras and bands… all of whom are local.  A nearby building hosted cookery demonstrations by none other than Angela Hartnett, Phil Howard, Theo Randall and Ken Culhane.  Introduction to all sorts foodie for the small people dotted around the Fair.  They even have a doggie creche so you can browse the fair without worrying about your mutt eating everything in sight!

Barnes Food Fair 2013

We were very impressed with the Fair.  The variety and quality of hot and cold food outlets to choose from.  We were also introduced to a number of local restaurants and bars that we weren’t aware of… and will now visit.

In addition to a very quick catch up with Phil Howard, I also managed to meet up with a couple of people who did the Food Writing Course with me, Adrienne and Nova.  Great to hear what they’ve been up to and also to see Adrienne hard at work with School of Wok.

I’m quite sure this event will grow and grow in future years.  The Fair was constantly buzzing with a great flow of people coming and going from the event but never emptying out!  I’m not sure how much the event raises for Barnes Community Association‘s charity but we shall certainly be back next year to spend our pounds and pennies again.

West Side Story at Sadlers Wells

Wow what a performance.  Love love loved this evening’s performance of West Side Story at Sadlers Wells.  Such energy, colour and spirit.

westsidestory1_2640587bIt’s been many years since I’ve seen West Side Story and I was excited to see what this production had made of it.  The choreography was fabulous.  The band brilliant.  The dancers sooo in time and in tune with each other as well as the beat.  The story zipped along at a pace with the dance telling the story as well as the words.

The stage setting was simple but effective.  The lighting enhanced the stage and story further.

I thoroughly recommend this production.  I believe it’s being taken on a national tour after the run in London draws to a close.  Go…

posterMichael Billington’s review in the Guardian
Charles Spencer’s review in the Telegraph
Paul Taylor’s review in the Independent

Tera Younger Memorial

During my time in Cancerland I’ve been blessed to meet and get to know a number of wonderful people.  One such person was a lady by the name of Tera Younger.  I had the honour to work with her on a couple of projects and also to be part of the same committees and boards.  Tera always amazed me at the amount of positions she held, the knowledge that she had obtained and also the tenacity to see a project through.  She was an incredibly positive person with a warm heart and a kind smile.

There was no doubt that some people referred to her as ‘Terror’ and wished she’d give up on projects affecting them.  But Tera didn’t.  If she believed in something she would research it, back it with facts and figures and do her very best to improve, alter or advance.

For me, Tera was also an incredibly positive person.  On more than one occasion she mentored me regarding projects.  She put me forward for more senior voluntary roles.  She asked my opinion and review.  More than that, she believed in me.  In my ability and my voice of experience from my own cancer ‘journey’ and also representing others.

Today a group of us gathered in the Chapel at the Chelsea & Westminster Hospital and celebrated the life of Tera.

photo-11It was clear from the stories being told, as part of the service as well as before and after it, that Tera will be truly missed.  Missed as a person for sure and also for the dedication made to her work.

Rest in peace Tera.  But also rest assured that your legacy will live on to improve, advance, alter AND importantly make all healthcare more patient-centric.

Wedding favours

ImageProxy.mvcI was blessed today to be invited to the wedding reception of friends, Martyn and Vicki.

IMG_4053Weddings always have personal meaning to those attending however today I truly felt this was something very special.  Not only could you feel the genuine love for the couple but you also knew that the couple were unrelenting in their giving to the guests and charities they are supporters of.

Firstly the colour scheme was a bold purple and white.  Why?  To honour Vicki’s father and thank the Lymphoma Association.  Each guest to the wedding ceremony was given a Lymphoma Association ribbon with a message “Four years ago to this very day a very brave man started his fight against Lymphoma cancer. And he won. Please wear this pin with pride, and in the knowledge that it means that we have helped someone else fight the fight. So they can win too. Just like Vicki’s dad Bryan.”  Not a dry eye when Bryan was there to give Vicki away on her special day.  At the reception venue there were also collection tins for the Lymphoma Association.

What a beautiful tribute to Vicki’s father and the charity that supported him and his family through some difficult times.

At the evening reception I had to chuckle when I arrived to find that some guests were already sporting tashes!  The bride had said to me last year that she’d love tashes at her wedding… my bag was packed! The bride and groom had dressed each table with a selection of romantic, thoughtful items together with some fun sparklers, glasses, tashes etc.  The evening was wonderful.  The music choices fabulous… it’s rare I go to a wedding where there are more guests on the dancefloor than off it!  We were even joined by a traffic cone and a turtle.

A few photos of the evening:

IMG_4050 IMG_4051 IMG_4052In addition, Vicki and Martyn were clear that they didn’t want wedding gifts but would prefer donations be made to the Lymphoma Association or other charities they support, Ellenor Lions Hospices and Bradbourne Riding for Disabled.

How incredibly generous for a bride and groom to share their precious day with family and friends but also others who will benefit from the donations and awareness.  What a great idea and one that could be incorporated into so many events.

I was truly touched by the thought behind all the choices and the incredible detail that had been put into making the wedding day and reception so special for the happy couple but also each and every guest.

Wishing Vicki and Martyn a lifetime of love and happiness together.

Shine Fundraising Tea

As you know I belong to a support group for younger people diagnosed with cancer.  Shine Cancer Support was set up by cancer patients who realised they didn’t quite fit into the ‘norm’.  The organisation has groups through England (more all the time) who meet up regularly.  The London group meets every month, usually in a pub or a bar.  We talk about our experiences sometimes, we share what we have learnt and sometimes we don’t mention cancer at all but simply talk about getting on with life.  It’s not like many groups where you may sit around a circle and discuss problems.  More like a group of friends with a common interest.

Today was a fundraising afternoon tea in order to raise funds to keep the group going.  We don’t have huge costs but the charity likes to pay for the first drink so that anyone affected by cancer in their 20s, 30s or 40s can pop along for a drink with some new friends.

Great afternoon.  A few introductory stories from Ceinwen and Richard.  Fun entertainment.  Always fun to catch up with my Shine friends.  Hopefully raised lots of money too… if we have more than enough for the London group, the excess will go toward other groups being set up or a retreat that is hoped to happen next year.

Shine Fundraising Tea 08/09/13